Hair help. 5 points?

i have good black hair but not that fine. buts its soft and straighten. wen i wet it it get thicker and crucly. i dont wont my hair to turn out thick. i have this gel that makes your hair curly. does it matter what water tempt youre using. i wont my hair to look like this

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Hair help. 5 points?

If you are straightening your hair with a flat iron everyday that is probably worse than just getting your hair straightened.

You can do a few things. If you want to do it yourself you can go to walgreens or a similar store and get this box that's right by the home perms except it says "straightener" just make sure to follow the directions but it works very well.

You can go to a salon and have them straighten your hair, they also have a deep conditioning treatment that will not only straighten you hair but leave it very soft and smooth.

Either way, after straightening just try to get a deep conditioner and once a week or more if you have time leave it on for a couple hours then rinse.

But you should definitely get it straightened, I know how it feels to have to do your hair every morning you will love the time you save

Hair help. 5 points?

cute pics

no it does not matter